WHEN LOVE TURNS SOUR IN CAMPUS.


 A toxic relationship can be defined as a relationship where a partner controls aspects of the other partner's life and it can be abusive in a pyschological,physical,emotional  or sexual way.

One of the most critical choices a person can make is with whom to be  in a relationship with and the most critical is with whom not to be in relationship with.

It is inescapable  and  unspoken truth that most campus students will end up being in a relationship during their time at a university and it is a possibility many people in campus will experience some form of a  toxic relationship and they cannot be able to know whether the relationship is toxic because of the random acts of kindness seem to make up for ignoring messages and leading people on.Campus students must recognize the signs of toxic relationship before it's too late.

Some signs of toxic relationship are;

●preventing you from making your own decisions. 

●Tells you that you can never do anything right .

●shows extreme jealousy of your friends and time spent away.

●keeps you or discourages you from seeing your friends or family.

●insults,demeans or shames you with put-downs.

●Controls every penny spent in household.

●Looks at you or acts in a way that scares you

●Intimidates using weapons

●Pressures you to have sex when you do not want to or do things sexually you are not comfortable with 

●Pressures you to use drugs or alcohol.

Campus students do not know how to help their friends or themselves get out of a toxic relationship. 

Campus sets students up for the rest of their lives with the toxic relationship and in life they may only be attracted to men who share those similar traits.

Nothing is more important than a person's well- being so make sure that red flags do not go unacknowledged and that campus students are sticking together.











Comments

  1. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:24

    Nice one

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    1. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:55

      Nice

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    2. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 11:30

      Some relationships in campus can be toxic yes coz they're startups,so starting relationships has some tantrums coz of not knowing each other well, but once u blend u,u can be gud to go.Toxic guys are jokers and it truly happens, they're not for serious relationships

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    3. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 14:05

      Wonderful

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  2. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:24

    Nice 💯

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  3. Onesmus7 October 2022 at 02:26

    True💯

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  4. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:27

    ,💯

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  5. KIRANGI7 October 2022 at 02:28

    Good work

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  6. Xavier7 October 2022 at 02:29

    👌

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  7. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:30

    Quite educative

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  8. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:31

    Very true☺️

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  9. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:32

    Enlightening

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  10. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:32

    True and educating

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  11. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:38

    A wonderful article that depicts the true picture of relationships in our compuses. Keep it up 🙏

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  12. Areba7 October 2022 at 02:53

    Makes a lot of sense. So relatable.

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  13. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:54

    Nice one...keep it up it so enlightening

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  14. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 02:59

    Good job,,keep up

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  15. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:15

    Good work 👏

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  16. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:18

    Nice piece

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  17. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:18

    Good work 👏

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  18. Debby7 October 2022 at 03:18

    True ooh🌝

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  19. Veyconife7 October 2022 at 03:19

    This is nice and educative, keep it up girl

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  20. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:26

    Chapa kazi Risper! Keep writing more👍👍

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  21. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:33

    Nice piece of an article... I think having freedom of speech, interaction, and self reliance is the greatest ingredient in any form of relationship... However, it all sums up to one thing... (Conscience)...,knowing what you want with your life.

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  22. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 03:36

    Nice piece. Keep it up girl

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  23. Susan Mwalloh7 October 2022 at 03:43

    There's so much truth here💯

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  24. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:08

    Having gone through campus life it happened, now give solutions. It's time one knew what she wants in life and why she is in campus. Always remember the parents have spend fortunes for you get focused and know when to quit

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  25. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:09

    excellent

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  26. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:17

    True

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  27. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:20

    Very true some people outside here are in toxic relationships , which is not really good . One should be able to make his or her decisions independently

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  28. Vincent Nyambane 7 October 2022 at 04:21

    Great piece.

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  29. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:22

    Excellent work,keep up the good work.

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  30. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:22

    Some sense of coarse .. But where did the rain start beating us

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  31. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:31

    This is extremely good work keep it up

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  32. Naman Oselu 7 October 2022 at 04:43

    Splendid.

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  33. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 04:52

    Real,very true

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  34. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 05:04

    wachana kusema ukweli bwana

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  35. Daphne7 October 2022 at 05:40

    Great work

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  36. Mercy7 October 2022 at 06:25

    This is very true. It is the reality @ campus relationship.

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  37. Ayore7 October 2022 at 06:31

    True

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  38. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 06:34

    Great article

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  39. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 06:48

    I like fact that your are advocating the real issue. good work!

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  40. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 06:53

    Great job these are facts for real..keep it up 👍

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  41. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 07:56

    Sooo true. May God help us all

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  42. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 08:08

    Nice piece 👍

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  43. Sopha7 October 2022 at 08:14

    On point .Keep up

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  44. Callamah KBK 7 October 2022 at 08:18

    🔥🔥🔥

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  45. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 08:47

    Nice article. Very informative

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  46. Alves Asomah7 October 2022 at 09:35

    Great Article

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  47. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 11:00

    Extremely nice and based on true facts. A thumbs up

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  48. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 11:11

    Nice article

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  49. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 11:27

    Wow what a nice piece

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  50. Shem Felix 7 October 2022 at 11:32

    Great 👌

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  51. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 12:49

    Reality

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  52. Isaac7 October 2022 at 12:52

    Good

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  53. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 13:12

    Nice piece

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  54. Anonymous7 October 2022 at 17:20

    Couldn't agree with the article any less, this so good

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  55. Ombati Geoffrey7 October 2022 at 21:28

    I believe during this period, everyone is still learning and the experience gained prepares you for the future .... This is a period for experimenting and testing your limits and learning about yourself.

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  56. Boaz8 October 2022 at 01:42

    Good read.

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  57. Anonymous8 October 2022 at 03:55

    Splendid

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  58. Anonymous8 October 2022 at 04:11

    Very informative 👏

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  59. Anonymous8 October 2022 at 09:13

    At least I have learned lessons, ❤️

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  60. Anonymous8 October 2022 at 09:54

    Very true

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    Informative

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    Educative piece

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  63. Anonymous9 October 2022 at 06:23

    True indeed,great piece

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  64. Anonymous10 October 2022 at 04:59

    Great work, keep it up

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    Good

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    Splendid piece of article

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  67. Anonymous15 October 2022 at 00:00

    Nice article

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  68. Anonymous16 October 2022 at 22:50

    So True 👍

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  69. Anonymous17 October 2022 at 02:24

    Nice job

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